My dear children winning at life is easier then you may realize. The first step is to realize who you really are. You are a child of God. You are greater then you can ever imagine. I do not see the human side of you I only see spiritual side of you. I know that sometimes you get caught in human emotions and do not realize who you really are. I know that some, if not most, of you live your entire life in the physical. Never realizing that there is a bigger and better part of you. Never realizing that I am there for you. To love and take care of you. To provide for you and help you in times of need. To walk with you every step of the way.
Step two trust that I will provide you with all your needs. You are my child and I only want the best for you. That is why I will not grant all your wishes. I will only grant the wishes that are best for you. You see only see in part, while I see the whole picture. I know what is best for you in the long run.
The third step is to be love.You tell your children that they can be anything they want to be when they grow up. Why not be love? To have the desire to always enter into a win, win situation when dealing with others. To let others be themselves and always to be yourself. To realize that you are love because you are a part of me and that I am Love. That you can let my love shine though you. That you can be the light onto others and lead be example.
The last step is always be positive. This step is really automatic when you follow the first three steps. When you come to realize who you really are, a child of God. That God is love and has always been and will always be nothing but unconditional love. That I will never leave or forsake you. That all things will always work out for you and that you will always be provide for. That when you walk in love there is no fear. That when you walk in the light there is no darkness. That having a positive attitude will actually change your DNA and sickness and disease will avoid you. That all good things will come to the one that loves God. That you and I are one because you where created in the image of God and that image is the image of love.